Chapter
4
Charles
was given the big Easy chair as Aaron sought to honour his senior.
The three couples positioned themselves in a semi circle facing
Charles on the surrounding couches. Charles
leaned forward putting his hands together in prayer fashion just below his
chin as he thought for a moment. “So
how are we coming? Do we have
tickets purchased?”
“Yes,
we’ve got ‘em,” Aaron responded eagerly.
“How
about the necessary shots and passports?”
“Everything
is in order and set to go,” Cheryl responded gleefully.
Just two weeks and we’ll be off to go on the biggest missionary
journey we’ve ever taken.”
Charles
leaned back and smiled a big smile that showed his gleaming white teeth
which were very much in contrast to his dark skin tone.
Crossing one leg over the other and folding his hands in his lap, he
proceeded to ask the next question.
“How
did your Bible study go?”
“Quite
well,” Terry stated confidently. “We
can show from Genesis and Ephesians that God’s perfect plan is that each
man only have one wife. We can
also show that the leaders in the church, who are to set an example to
others, as it says in 1 Peter chapter 5, are to have only one wife
according to 1 Timothy 3 and Titus chapter one.
So that means that one man for one woman or monogamy as it is called
is the only right answer and anything else is sin.”
“My,
my” Charles said as he smiled wryly.
“May I ask some other questions to see how thoroughly you’ve done
your research?”
“Sure,
go ahead” Juanita said.
“Please
answer the best you can,” he began.
“Who
was the first man in the Bible mentioned to have two wives?”
The
couples sat looking back and forth to one another until finally Aaron said
“Wasn’t it Abraham?”
“No.
It was Lamech before Noah’s time.
Did God ever condemn Lamech for having two wives?”
Charles continued, and after a brief pause he answered his own
question: “No.”
“How
many wives did Moses have?” Charles
continued. “Two” he answered his own question. “One was a Midianite and the other was an Ethiopian.”
“When
Aaron and Miriam spoke against Moses for marrying his second wife, the
Ethiopian, did God rebuke Aaron and Miriam or did He rebuke Moses?”
“Aaron
and Miraim, and Miriam got leprosy for seven days” Kyle said, remembering
the story.
At
this point Terry, who was sitting beside her husband, gave him a slight
elbow in the side and eyed him out of the corner of her eyes, saying without
saying “Don’t you dare help him.”
Charles
ignored Terry’s antics and charged on.
“Gideon was a mighty warrior for God. Did he have more than one
wife?” Yes, the Bible records
that he had many wives. Did God
condemn him for having many wives?”
By
this point everyone was silent and listening and knowing the answer would be
no. God didn’t condemn him.
By now, Cheryl and Juanita had grown impatient with this question and
answer game.
“What
are you saying?” Cheryl
asked.
“So
far I am not saying anything,” Charles
replied, I am only asking questions and giving the biblically correct answer
when you don’t know it.”
Terry
stood up abruptly wiping tears from her eyes with a handkerchief she’d
drawn out of her purse. “Well
excuse me while I visit the ladies room” she said tearfully as she rushed
out of the room.
“I’ll
go with her” Juanita
suggested as she followed.
Cheryl
looked to her husband for a moment, questioning with her eyes what she
should do. With a slight nod of
the head, he indicated that she too could check on Terry.
With
a sigh, Charles leaned back in his chair and asked “Are all American women
so emotional?”
George
spoke up “I guess you just caught us a little off guard.
Uh . . . maybe we could . . . uh . . . continue another time?” he
said.
“Yeah . . that’s a good idea, why don’t we fellows just get together on Monday?” Kyle suggested.
“Good
idea,” Aaron agreed,
“Let’s shoot some baskets in the church gym while we kick around various
scriptural positions on the issue.”
All four men had stood up now and were moving toward the front door. As they came out toward the driveway and their respective vehicles, Aaron reminded Charles that he was the main speaker for his Sunday morning service the next day.
“No
problem,” Charles responded,
“I am fully prepared.”
Each
of the visitors got into their respective vehicles.
George had a shining late model BMW.
Kyle climbed into his Lexus while Charles moved toward his ten year
old Chevy. Although it wouldn’t be fair to call the car an old
clunker, it was obvious that he didn’t travel in the wealthy circles of
the American ministers.
A honk of Kyle’s horn brought the ladies out who hopped into the appropriate vehicles. Charles, who stood a full six inches taller than Aaron, shook the shorter man’s hand with a firm grip. Although Aaron was shorter, he was a strong man who had played halfback in his college football days.
Aaron
felt the calluses on Charles’ hand and remembered that he worked as a
construction helper at times. This was curious since he knew Charles also had a degree in
architecture. Aaron determined
to ask him about that sometime. Specifically
why he didn’t get a higher paying job as an architect.
Cheryl
was already climbing into bed when Aaron came in.
As he came through the bedroom door and headed toward the bathroom,
Cheryl spoke up.
“What’s
he going to speak on tomorrow?”
“Wh
. . . I don’t know. Why?”
“Is
he going to preach that a man have more than one wife?”
“Well,
uh, I . . . don’t think so. But
I told him a month ago he could speak on whatever he’d like,” Aaron said
reflecting on a previous conversation with Charles.
“Well,
if he does preach polygamy he’ll wreck our congregation.
Most people will leave and our reputations and ministries will be
destroyed! He wouldn’t, would he?”
Cheryl lamented as her voice trailed off.