Chapter 15
After
everyone was gone, Aaron and Cheryl sat at the dining room table.
Aaron held his head with one hand while gently beating his fist on
the table with the other. Cheryl
slouched down in her chair with her arms over her chest.
“What
are you going to do now?” she queried.
“I
don’t know” Aaron began to reply, “I guess we have to go on without
them. I had no idea Kyle was
such a henpecked husband. I
mean Terry just runs their entire show!” he despaired.
“What
do you mean?” Cheryl exclaimed. “Can
you blame her? She’s trying
to protect what’s hers! In
fact I think she’s doing the right thing.”
“You
do?” Aaron questioned.
“Yes,
she doesn’t want to lose her husband to another woman and she doesn’t
want her husband thinking he can have more than one wife.
And I don’t either.”
“Yeah,
that’s fine. But what does
God want?” Aaron responded.
“What
does God want?” She repeated
incredulously.
“Yes,
have you ever considered that God might want something different than what
we want?” Aaron said as he
grew bolder. “Have you
considered that we are His servants, He is not ours?
You women seem to think that the only reason a man might have more
than one wife is because he’d like a variety of sexual partners, but have
you ever considered that God might be concerned about those single Christian
women and the widowed Christian women?
Maybe God wants their needs taken care of and He chooses certain men
to do it by becoming their husbands.”
Cheryl’s
eyes widened as he talked. She
began to visibly shake. Aaron
knew he was shocking her and yet he went on.
“There was nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing, going on between Mrs. Chandler and me, but suppose, just suppose God spoke to me or George to take her in as a second wife. Either one of us could afford to do it. Then I could give her boys the father figure they need and she would have a man to love her and take care of her. Would that mean you or Juanita if God chose George to do it would be loved any less? No!”
By
this time Cheryl had burst into tears.
She couldn’t believe what she was hearing.
In a flash she was up from the table ran to their bedroom.
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They were to have arrived at the
international airport three hours ahead of time.
Charles was there, waiting and looking for the others.
A half hour went by -- still he was alone. He began to wonder if he’d be making the trip alone.
Finally, two hours before departure, he saw George and Juanita
hurrying to the checkin stand.
“Hey,
glad to see you,” Charles greeted them warmly.
“Glad to be here,” George returned grabbing Charles’ extended hand and giving a firm handshake.
“Where’s
Aaron and Cheryl?” Charles asked.
“I
don’t know,” came the reply from George, “They should be here.
Let’s wait another half hour before we check in, maybe they were
delayed.”
The
three pulled all six of their large suitcases to the side and sat down in a
row of chairs.
“You
know,” George began, “Juanita and I had a long talk last night.
We prayed together too, and we came to some agreements.”
“Yes,
go on” Charles encouraged him.
“The
Bible says,” he continued, “the head of every man is Christ and the head
of the woman is the man.” He
paused. “No offence to them
but when I look at Kyle and Terry, I see a couple that is just totally out
of order. We decided if our
house was going to please God it had to be in order.
That means I lead and my dear wife follows. So I told her we’re going.”
He paused and smiled at his wife.
“I know it was hard for her to swallow and say it but she did.
She said, ‘Yes, dear.’ So
regardless of anyone else we want to go on with God.”
“Great!
That’s great, George” Charles said and then turning to Juanita he
added “You, my dear sister, are very pleasing in God’s sight.”
“Well,
to tell the truth,” Juanita began to admit, “I hope George isn’t
called to have more than one wife, but if he is I pray I can deal with it.”
She sighed.
“Part of the reason I wanted to come even after last night is to
see how your two wives could both love you and get along with each other as
well” she said.
“You’ll
see” Charles chuckled “you’ll see.
We have a small 40 acre farm. There
is the main house where I live when I’m there, and each wife has her own
smaller house nearby for her and her children.”
“You
have children?” Juanita
asked, being surprised by the revelation.
“Ah
yes, my first wife Rachel has 3 boys and 2 girls and my second wife
Elizabeth has 2 girls and 2 boys,” he revealed.
“Women
must be different there than here.”
“Ah
yes, this is true” Charles said. “You
see, in the country and in the small villages we don’t have women’s
liberation like you do here in America.
Wives cannot divorce their husbands and take the children and the
possessions” Charles continued. “Our wives give us great respect as the Bible says they
should. If they do not we can
suspend them.
“Suspend
them? What’s that mean?”
George asked.
“It
means we send them back to their parents for better training” Charles
explained.
“How
long” Juanita questioned.
“Oh,
up to five years” Charles answered.
“Wow!”
George exclaimed, “that’s different!”
George’s
eyes widened as a revelation came to his mind.
“Now I understand why you work so hard and live so meagerly.
You’ve been sending money home to support your wives and children,”
George said as things began to click in place.
“Yes,
that’s right my friend” Charles continued.
“But
why don’t you get a higher paying job?”
George questioned further.
“Life
here in America is not as kind to us of a darker hue as it is to you lighter
brethren,” Charles explained.
George
and Juanita looked at each other a little sheepishly.
They, like many whites, had thought racism and discrimination had
ended in the sixties.
“Hey, there’s Aaron” Charles exclaimed. They all stood up as they saw Aaron jostling his way tugging along a large suitcase and carrying another.
“Hey
buddy! Praise the Lord!
Where’s the wife?” George
asked.
“She’s
not coming” he revealed. “And she said she’s not sure she’ll be there when I get
back,” he shared slowly with eyes cast down.
“But
one thing I know,” he said as he looked up again, “I must follow God and
where He leads me. I must walk
in His truth as His Spirit guides me.”
He paused. “Let’s
check in and go to Africa!”
The End
( Of Part I )