Chapter
21
It was dark as the van finally pulled to a stop just outside the gate
of the Okinyi compound. A few
beeps on the horn brought a twelve year old boy wearing a T-shirt, shorts
and sandals to open the gate. As
the van pulled in toward the larger house which stood directly facing the
gate which was some 100 feet or so beyond it, children of various ages came
streaming out from the two houses which stood on either side.
“Welcome home father,” they cried out as they beat on the sides
of the van as it slowly rolled to a halt.
Charles turned from the driver’s seat and spoke something to his
wives in Luo. The American trio
could make out that it was some type of directive, since both Rachel and
Elizabeth quickly climbed out of the van and began to speak in Luo.
The children then immediately lined up in rows facing each other.
The largest stood closest to the front of the van and the smallest on
either side was near the front door of the big house.
Rachel and Elizabeth took their places behind each line indicating
which were their children by the common father, Charles Okinyi.
As Charles passed each child, he or she would bow as they shook the
visitors’ hands, while crossing the left hand over to the right forearm. Charles later explained that this was a sign of respect.
Charles’ larger home faced the east and the rising sun.
Rachel’s house was then to his right on the south side facing north
and Elizabeth’s house was on the left, facing Rachel’s house to the
south. The group moved past the
porch and into the medium sized living room.
Just beyond that was a dining room.
Off to the left was a kitchen area.
And alongside the kitchen area were two bedrooms, one slightly larger
than the other.
“May I use the restroom?” Juanita
asked.
“Surely, Mrs. Meadows,” Elizabeth replied.
“Just follow me.”
“Hey,” Juanita objected, “Let’s have none of this Mrs.
stuff.” As she followed
Elizabeth out the side door of the kitchen. Although passage through the kitchen was quick she noticed
that it seemed quite quaint, even ancient.
She’d soon found out how ancient but another shock greeted her
first. They marched several
yards through a back yard before coming to the outhouse. Juanita stood in shock and amazement for a moment.
“An outhouse” she thought. “You
mean you don’t even have running water and a decent toilet?” she blurted
out.
“I . . . I . . . I’m sorry ma’am,” Elizabeth began as she
tried to hide her shock and embarrassment provoked by her visitor’s
rudeness. “Perhaps we can find a running water toilet at a petrol
station, but the nearest village is two hours away.”
“Uh . . no . .” Juanita reluctantly stated as she wrinkled her
nose at the stench that greeted her at the wooden door.
As Juanita returned toward the kitchen a few minutes later her
suspicions of Charles only having a wood burning stove to cook on were
confirmed.
“Are you alright, ma’am?”
Rachel asked.
“Yes, I’m fine” Juanita responded as she was escorted back to
the living room where Aaron and George were seated.
“May I get you a Fanta to drink?” Rachel asked.
“Fanta? What’s a
Fanta?” Juanita questioned.
“Sorry, ma’am -- I mean a soda pop.”
“Yes, that would be fine. Could
you put lots of ice in glass?” Juanita requested.
“Sorry, ma’am,” Rachel said sheepishly, “no ice.”
Juanita turned to look at Charles (who was seated with the men) with
a quizzical look on her face as if to ask without words why there was no ice
after such a long hot drive.
“We don’t have a refrigerator because we don’t have electricity
in this part of the country,” Charles explained.
Juanita could hardly believe her ears.
She had envisioned this great Africa trip which would be a
combination of an African Safari and a vacation with a little preaching
thrown in, but what she was getting was like a time machine trip back to the
eighteenth or early nineteenth century, as they were approaching the twenty
first century!
Juanita’s eyes began to tear as she uttered a muffled “OK.” Rachel and Elizabeth noticed Juanita’s discomfort, but
neither said anything.
An hour later dinner had been prepared.
Rachel escorted Juanita into the kitchen where there was a wash pan
with warm water for her to wash her hands.
Juanita returned to the living room just in time to see Elizabeth --
who had a towel over her left arm and a small wash basin in her left hand --
pouring hot water out of a kettle held in her right hand onto the hands of
each of the men. Once again
Juanita was hurt as she experienced another culture shock.
Dinner consisted of chicken, rice, greens, and a special bread that
was sort of like a soft taco shell and tea.
Juanita sat and ate quietly while the men sat and talked jovially.
“Where are the ladies?” Juanita finally asked, being very curious
as to why they hadn’t joined them for dinner.
“They’re eating in the kitchen,” Charles explained.
“Oh! They aren’t
good enough?” Juanita blew up “to eat with the great lord Okinyi?” she
yelled sarcastically as she threw her cloth napkin on the table and ran out
of the dining room through the living room and out the front door.
Bam! The screen door
slammed behind her as she made her exit.
George started to rise to go after her but Charles indicated he
shouldn’t, while he spoke something in Luo in a voice loud enough for his
wives (who were still in the kitchen) to hear him.
Both wives quickly moved through the front door to speak to Juanita.
Juanita’s outburst only displayed a small amount of the emotion she
was feeling. The next one would
be far worse.